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so i'm 15/f and i've been dating a 16 year old guy for over 4 months now. I've never felt this way about anyone, and I love him more than anything. But recently my mom and stepdad have been dissing him.. today we were supposed to hang out, but my mom said i couldn't because of a lame excuse,, then 20 minutes later i asked her if i could go to my friends house, and she was like yeah sure, thats fine. she's been acting like this for a while now, and every time i'm on the phone with him, she gets aggravated and wants me to get off..i'm afraid this will drive us apart, and i don't want to lose him...me and my mom aren't very close and don't usually discuss my relationships, she says i'm too young, but iknow i'm not. I love him.. What shoudl i do?

You may love him, and he may even love you, but at your age I can almost guarantee that you won't get married.
At your age, it's most important to remember who will be in your life until the end: family. But, if you really do love him, sit down and talk with your parents. Try to see things from their point of view and explain to them that you understand what they're talking about. Try to get them to see things from your point of view.
Remember, it's not really their decision as to whether or not you can date him. There are always ways around their rules. You could always meet him at friends houses or at school. But, wouldn't it be nicer for everyone if you didn't have to hide it?

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