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Q: okay so we broke up like a little over a month ago and i've been talking to his sister and she says that he has no social life since we broke up, and he's been being mean to his friends and stuff and he was doing better with me (he had a social life with my friends-guys&girls too but now they kinda don't like him cuz he dumped me). the last month while we were dating he would lie to me and tell me "his mom wouldn't let him go out" or "he had homework" and he never used to do this for like the first 6 months we were together. she says hes lazy but he still likes me. i guess what i'm saying is that i miss who he used to be...we were planning on hanging out when school is over, so my question is, do you think i can get him back the way he used to be during the first 6 months? how? things were perfect last summer and i want them to be this summer too. and please don't tell me to just move on, if worst comes to worst i know that i can. i just want to give this a shot because i do miss who he was. thanks so much. 17/f hes 17.
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that pretty much sounds like what im going through right now. and honestly, theres not much you can do. both options are kinda eh...either move on, or kiss ass. treat him like a king, and let him know youre completely there for him. just dont be clingy though - spoil him. its kinda one of those things where you just have to suck up your pride, but alot of the time its worth it. and when he made excuses for not wanting to see you before, maybe you were being clingy then and he just needed space. (my guy did that too and said i was.) so what i would do is make a date for you two to hang at either your house or his, and talk. about everything thats bothering you. now guys usually hate these talks, so ease into the topic, and dont accuse him of anything. be understanding and try to see both sides; he'll be amazed you understand. i hope everything works out for you (and me haha :p) good luck! :) 17/f
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