Member Since: May 20, 2009
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Last Update: June 12, 2009
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I have been having dreams about my exboyfriend a lot recently, and I really do miss him.
We dated last may until november, and it may not seem that long, but we were with each other day and night. We did everything together. I loved him with all of my heart and I know he did love me also. His exgirlfriends broke us up, they were insane about breaking us up.
After our relationship failed in November he started dating a new girl, and she they have been together since then. i haven't tried breaking them up because all I want for him is to be happy. I wish he knew this. He doesn't want anything to do with me at all, he won't even add me on myspace. I miss him so much and words can't explain how much I want him back now. I don't know what I can do. It seems like all I can do is wait for them to break up and STILL I'd have to wish that he would ever come back to me.
I love him, and I lost him, what do I do (link)
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There's nothing you actually CAN do right now judging from where you stand with your ex boyfriend. A good start would be being FRIENDS with him again, but that could make the girlfriend jealous.. so if you two do become friends again make sure not to immediately tell him how you still feel.. and start dating again to see if there's other guys worth falling for.. dont waste all your time on one guy.. its not worth your time, while he's out with his new gf..
just be there for him and im sure he will come to you soon enough
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ways you could become close with him again, even after he's been pushing you out of his life, is to stop trying soo hard. i really think many girls out there, that go through the same situation as you don't realize that by just STOPPING and THINKING FOR THEMSELVES they are doing their ex boyfriends and themselves a huuuge favor. Why?
Because by doing so they will gain more respect from their ex boyfriend and maybe even his current girlfriend..
Because they gain respect for themselves by doing a thoughtful act..
and because they learn when to move on..
moving on can be hard, but trust me.. in the long run (when this guy sees that you are trying to forgot him) he might just come back for you.. give it a try.. you have nothing to lose at this point
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Thanks, the only thing is is that he kinda wants me out his life, and theres no way I could become his friend really, I guess that's my problem, how are ways to become his friend again when he keeps pushing me away?
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