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HEYYY :D i'm in college and i'm a psychology major. i've had many experiences with boyfriends, crushes, friends and family. i know quite alot about sex and sex related issues, so feel free to ask me anything about that! i will be completely honest because i would want the same in return.

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so my band director hes in like his 20's & hes married. We are really close like he's my second dad, I trust him alot. Since we have such a close relationship we walk to classes together or like we'll be in band & he'll pick me out of the crowd to do an errand. My favorite is when my lunch table goes up to get lunch he sits w/ me & keep me company b/c I pack. He also lets me come down for a lesson whenever I please, like all i would have to do is show up & he doesn't care because he's happy to help me but w/ everyone else they need to be assigned a lesson time. EVERYONE thinks him & I are doing it. It's ridiculous. I tell everybody that we are just chill &.. his wife is pregnant! It's crazy I can't be anywhere in the hallway w/ him alone or people would whistle. What's your take on our relationship, creepy.. it's to close.. we should be strictly teacher student?

I don't know how old you are or if you're in middle or high school... but as long as you're not doing anything inappropriate it, it's perfectly FINE. Do you like him in a romantic way or do you just feel very close to him, in a 2nd dad way like you said? Has he ever touched you in a romantic way or hinted at liking you? I'm sure you see where I'm going here. You guys have not crossed any lines and people whistle because thats the way kids/teenagers are. You should feel lucky to have a close relationship with a teacher and that you can count on him. Just make sure it stays in the boundary lines (as in, don't hang out outside of school or call eachother)

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(Rating: 5) we definately don't hang out or call eachother, thats what i dont understand, my friend goes out to eat with her math teacher! thanks, friend!

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