I've been through a lot in my life, more then most but not nearly as much as others. I feel like I can offer people a lot of stress relief by telling them what I have learned through all of my problems to hopefully help them combat theirs.
I have dealt with watching my father die when I was only 6 years old, I know what it is to work sunrise to sunset (I live on a farm), I understand that the bonds between siblings can be the strongest things we ever feel.
I have gone through the battle on cancer with my mother; I have shaved her head, helped her pick out her wig, fed her food only to hold a bucket as she puked it up minutes later. I watched a human being slowly die and I have been to my mother's funeral all before I finished my senior year of high school, what was supposed to be the greatest year of my life.
I'm in college now and also understand how much that can change a person. It is with all the events that have happened in my life- all the love I have experienced and all the love I have lost that I believe I can offer advice to another person, even if it is only a little.
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14/f
So I've been liking this guy for about 3 years now and finally got the chance to tell him that I like him about a month ago. He could tell what I was going to say and actually looked happy that I told him. Ever since then he has been acting Crazy nice and flirting a whole lot more. Like randomly running up to me and giving me hugs and CONSTANTLY staring at me. All the time.
Now everyone knows that I like him and won't let me forget it. And I am positive that he likes me back.
The most annoying part is that it's been over a month since I told him an he hasn't given me an answer. (I basicly told him, and he walked away smiling)
Right now I'm at the point where I'm thinking "just drop it, oh well, the last three years of your life are pretty much wasted"
But I understand that he is super shy and he probably has no idea what to think. Although, he flirts with other girls to make me jealous...
So this weekend some of my friends are having a picnic and he's coming. I HAVE to know something. It doesn't matter what it is, even if he doesn't like me back, I need to know something.
What do I do!? Please help me on this. I don't feel like I should go up to him and ask him again... Akward. And flirting my ass off doesn't seem like enough at this point.
(I need to add that I might not see much of him this upcoming school year so I need to do this noww)
Basicly, my mind is beyond confused.
What should I do?
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When I was younger I was in a similar situation and basically I figured that I spent so much time thinking about him that there was no way I could ignore my feelings. Your best bet is to just talk to him, I would do it in private since it is just the two of you. Maybe at the picnic (if it's in a park) ask him to go for a walk with you and just casually talk to him about it. Don't be pressure heavy and be like go out with me right now or you'll never have a chance again! Just ask him what he's thinking and how he feels about you because you feel confused and need to know if he wants some kind of relationship with you or not.
As you said he obviously likes you, I don't know him, but if you two are very good friends he could be worried that a relationship could spoil that; you really just need to talk to him.
Hope this was helpful!
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That cleared up a lot. Thanks so much! I'll definately come to you if I need any more help. :D
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