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HEYYY :D i'm in college and i'm a psychology major. i've had many experiences with boyfriends, crushes, friends and family. i know quite alot about sex and sex related issues, so feel free to ask me anything about that! i will be completely honest because i would want the same in return.

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13/F

Okay. Here it goes. So there is the first guy (we"ll call him P) and I really like him. I have liked him for a year (maybe 2...) and I am truely crazy about him. He knows I like him and he has told me he likes me too. But, we had decided a long time ago not to date. He is 14 btw. See, hes moving soon (matter of days) and we have known this all year which is why I was do reluctant to date him, even though we both like eachother and act like a couple anyway... He is real cleancut. Plays 2 sports, on the honor roll, respectful, sweet, you get the point. But then there is this other boy...

This other boy is 15, goes to a diferent school, and we'll call him D. He is definitely not the kind of boy people would expect me to be with. I'm a good kid, straight A's, soccer, you know... People could undestand me and P being together but D would shake things up. Hes not BAD. But, he's not really a good kid... A few nights ago I was at a sleepover and he texted me at midnight asking what I was up to. I told him I was at my friends house and that we were just chilling. Well about an hour later (1 am) he called me and told me to come outside. He had gotten his friend to drive him to my friends house and was trying to get us to come out. We of course declined and they stayed outside the house until like 2 before they finally gave up and left. D is exciting and he told me he wants to hang and... Then I remember P. I still like him!! I am so confused! P is moving but I really like him and D is a bad boy but I really like him too! Do i have a commitment to P even though we arent together? I dont know what to do! Help!

If this guy P doesn't want to step up and be with you, then maybe it's time to move on. He's moving and you guys have decided not to date, so I don't see the problem in liking the other guy D. I know you've liked P for awhile and you guys probably have a history and know eachother well, but he doesn't want to make the relationship between you two official. Go for this guy D. Things could workout and you owe yourself to give it a try. He's a bit older and if he tries anything on you you don't like or you realize you don't really like him, no harm done! Just move on. Give it a chance though, because you might regret it later.

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(Rating: 5) Okay, thanks!
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