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well i broke up with my ex
were not friends anymore
still love him, in the way that i always will. because he was my first true love.
i feel as if i dont have the capacity in my heart to love like that ever again.
i feel as if i gave him all my trust, and theres no more to give to anyone else.
i feel as if i wont be as confortable with another guy until i get married. (me and my ex were extremely close. too close for my age, and it got too serious so i broke it off)
i have lost hope for the future.

i dont know what my question is, maybe, does anyone have anything to say that can ease this empty feeling?

Its always extremely hard breaking up with someone your really close to. You have to have confidence that what is meant to be will be. Take a good long look in the mirror. Take notice to all your qualities and realize that you have alot to offer. The right person for you will come along.

I also just want to say that since you guys only broke up because it got too serious, its possible that maybe you can get back together when you ready to have that serious of a relationship. If you realize down the road that your not getting over him and he is the person who you love and makes you happy, then dont deny your feelings. Who knows, Maybe hes your soulmate?

Good Luck!

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