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Member Since: May 28, 2009
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Last Update: May 29, 2009
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Hello! My name is Sara, Im 22/F And am getting married in August. I want to start taking some form of birth control because my fiance and I want to wait befor we have kids for a while. Heres the low down,
-Both myself and my partner have waited to have sex until marrage, so as far as birth control goes I have NO idea what to expect....
-As luck will have it, i will most likely be getting my period the 28th...my weedding day..ugh so I am looking for a method that can possibly alter my menstal cycle by then...
-I dont particularly want a vaginal ring as im scared it could be felt by my husband durring sex (and I one of you girls has used it and it doesnt please let me know too!!)
-Im a scatter brain, I work 2 jobs and would have a tough time remembering to take a daily pill...but if that is the best option I will try my hardest to remember!!!

So yeah, anything that anyone has tried that seems to work the best and is less of a hastle and gives u fewer periods, PLEASE let me know your opinions!!!! Thank you!!! (link)
Ok, please don't try using the "pull out" method.
Its doesn't work.

Just go onto birth control pills and use condoms if you really don't want to get pregnant.

You would really have to f*** up to mess those two up.

The problem is most people don't want to use condoms, and don't understand the pills. People always say "I got pregnant on the pill!" but its ussually because they don't follow the EXACT instructions. Like taking it the same time everyday.

Me and my fiance have been together for a year and a half, and have lots of sex. We only use birth control pills and have been fine, so adding a condom would definently cement it.


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Well, I know not to use the pull out method, Ive seen alot of young girls think that is ok and it sooo stupid! ; ) What brans of birth control are you taking? And do you have any side effects from it?? Thanks!




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