hi peoplez! im alorra, if u need advice on anything, like boys, girls, school, work, or anything else, dont be afarid to ask me, ill give you a good answer to just about any question.
thoughts for the day: some people are only alive because its illegal to shoot them.
i dont suffer from insanity, i enjoy it.
earth is the insane asylum of the universe.
Most important: Dont cry over someone who wont cry over you.
oh and one more thing, i answer things honstly, so my number 1 rule, dont ask me something if you dont want a honst answer.
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Location: Fantasy Land
Member Since: July 16, 2006
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Last Update: August 3, 2010
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I have been in this relationship around a year I do have a gem for a girl friend and there is no doubt that she wants to marry me . I just want to get more of my eggs in a row although I am thinking more along the lines of marriage and not so much ingagement.So my question is would this be to soon?Keep in mind we are not young 18 year olds we are both 45 years old she has been single for over 20 years while she made commitments to raising her children now they are grown and so are mine I am a widower my wife passed away in 1985 although I did date over the years I was single for 6 years prior to meeting her in church.And yes we dont sleep together.We choose to be patient. (link)
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I applaud your patience. I don't think it is too soon at all. If you both are committed to eachother and very much in love, AND both wanting to get married, then i would have to say, pop the question. You are both still young (yes you are dont argue)and have so much time to spend happily married, and if you really love eachother there is no reason to "drag the wait out" so to speak.
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I agree and it may seem funny that I am reaching out to a site for some information that my heart already has an answer for I just want to hear other peoples thoughts and ideas that seem to have common sense and wisdom .I thank you for you time.God Bless you!
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