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Q: i'm not really asking too much for advice, but more of an opinion and what you think. so heres my story (17f&17m):

i dated this guy for 8 months and we broke up the last week of april...he said he doesn't have the same feelings for me. however, we went to prom together and i was laying on this guy cause i wasn't feeling good and he was off doing his own thing...and he got upset at me for that...we both decided that itd be best for us not to talk until summer starts (which is in like a month from now) then he wants to start hanging out again as friends and he said "if its meant to be, it'll be". we started going out during the summer of last year and i was thinking of doing something cute when we hang out to realize why he fell for me last summer. i really love this kid and he treats me right. so what do you think i should do with this whole situation..is there anything that can boost our chances of getting back together?

oh and should i text him first when school ends? and how long should i wait? or should i let him text me?
ok well theres a few things i can deffinetly tell you. one is that you have to give him time to miss you. so as to texting him first, id let him text you. and it reallly sucks to wait around for him to, but it'll be worth it in the end. another thing, is if you want him back, you have to be the same girl he fell in love with. everyone changes during long relationships, and it takes guts to admit you have. (i just went through all this with my bf) so basically you have to be your old self. and i think a really cute thing to do to hang out is to maybe go where your first date was. or wear his favorite perfume, shirt, etc. a good thing to do is mirror him. i dont think im going to explain it right, so you should google it. search something like "mirroring people." ive used it; it works. its basically just body language, and you copy theirs. google will explain it better. im not very good at organizing my advice lol sorry. but i really hope i helped; let me know :) 17/f

thanks

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