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My name is Sami.♥ Wherever life takes me, you'll find me with a smile. Feel free to ask me anything, I will give you the best advice that I can :)
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At school I'm not popular. I don't want to be, but I do have a problem. I'm self-conscious and I don't know how to help that. Ever since I started 7th grade I've become self-conscious. I've tried to not be, but It's hard. I have long blonde hair, but I always keep it up. I always wear a big hoodie that's black. No I'm not Emo or Gothic. It's just comfy. I wear it because of the whole self-conscious thing. My parents tell me I'm pretty and so do my friends, but I'm still self-conscious.
A lot of girls go through this. I still am going through it and im in high school. But ive realized that the way people see you is not the way you see your self. When you look in the mirroryou pick out every little thing wrong with you dont you??? Well other people dont. They just look at who you are and how you carry yourself. If you hide yourself and you wear the same hoodie with your hair pulled up everyday people will know that your self conscious. Just put your fear of what other people think behind you and tell yourself that your beautiful becuase you are. Wear your hair down with a cute top some jeans and flats or pumps or flip flops whatever you want. Walk down the hall with a smile. People will notice that you have confidence. And i know you didnt say anything about guys in your quesion but guys like girls with confidence. as long as you have a cute personality and your not snobby or anything people will love you and your friends and family will love the new you! I promise! Good Luck & Hope i helped =]
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