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I am always feeling down and blue but I'm always hyper and naturally funny. I neve stop talking. But inside I hate myself and wish I was either dead or someone else.
I cut myself on average twice a month when things get ontop of me
I feel like I have no identity but whenever I ask for help the people around me are so wrapped up in themselves and say stuff like "that's a shame" and my sis just says "yeah well get over it"
I am so stressed and noone cares life is all crap and I might as well just sleep forever
P.S I'm not gonna kill myself so persuasion is not needed
Any advice ? (link)
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You're better off coming on here for help than with a lot of friends. People are too worried about their own problems usually. I can understand being frustrated and depressed. I'm going to guess you are in high school. You may not think you have an identity or maybe it just isn't wrapped up in some typical package. but that doesn't mean you don't have one. we all do. It sounds as if you partly mean by your identity dilemma that you aren't noticed as much as you'd like. That's the way i take it anyhow. forgive me if i'm wrong. Sometimes it's hard to have something that gets people's attention or be noticed. Let's say you are a world class chef. Nobody is going to know. It's not like you could bring a kitchen to school. All i mean is some things that make a person stand out just aren't as flamboyant. Also, some people are very good at lots but just aren't standouts at one thing. You may have someone that's way too tall for their own good but they are an outstanding basketball player. They may have nothing else to offer but everyone knows they can do that. There is nothing wrong with being well rounded. It makes a person interesting once you know them. I'm going to go out on a limb here. You're naturally funny. You have lots of energy. You already have become good at faking emotions. Why don't you try your luck with stuff like theater? If you are funny then you probably have comedic timing. You may have a natural gift with it. Plus, if you do it well, you'll instantly hear the laughter from the crowd to know you are good. If you are that hyper that could come in handy with any sort of dance or performance. Heck, if you could just try your luck at comedy, or even just do things like make funny videos for youtube. I just think that if someone said "you know, you really made me laugh there". Maybe it would do you some good. We all have worth. We all have talents. But for a moment, let's say i've misunderstood and you really meant that you don't know what group you should hang with. Yes it is nice to be in one of the cliques. It makes life easier. At the same time there are a good number of people that can mix with any group. They are the ones that head out ahead of the game. Not everyone can do that. It's possible that you may be if you are unsure of your identity. I hope i was some help. If not, i'd love another crack and maybe help you.
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thank you so much your answer was awesome
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