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okay well to make this short i want to break up with my boyfriend of 9 months because he ignores my texts and doesn't seem to care, like i'm doing all of the planning for us to hang out and he's not contributing to it and its making me upset..i'm just tired of doing this to myself...

anyways, i want to break up with him as soon as possible but i don't know what to say and his birthday is in like 2 days so i feel bad =[ but i don't wanna keep waiting .. any advice?

oh and im also hesitant about breaking up with him because i really do love him more than anything and he's my first love and i feel like i might want to go back to him and i dont wanna put myself in that situation...=/

Hi :]

Have you tried talking to him about how you feel? If you haven't, you really should before you break up with him. Simply ask him is he happy with how you treat him, what does he like, what doesn't he like, and if he asks you back, there's your chance. If he doesn't ask back, just simply use the phrase 'I've been meaning to ask and tell you something'. Ask him his feelings since the beginning of the relationship up to now. Are they stronger? The same? Ask him to be blunt. Then let him know how you feel you put most of the work into the relationship when it comes to hanging out and communicating. Maybe he doesn't feel like he's not doing anything since you don't complain. If he doesn't even consider your feelings toward this situation, doesn't change, or refuses to hear what you have to say I'd say break up with him =/ good luck hun

-Uniq :]

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(Rating: 5) thanks..i've always been wanting to talk to him about it but like..i don't know how to bring it up, and then i just chicken out, lame, i know but i need help =/ its hard for me when it comes to deep talking..
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