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let's start off with im 16, he's 17 (both juniors) and we live 20-25 mins away from each other so we only see each other on weekends. we've been dating for 9 months.

the first 6 months were amazing, he was the best boyfriend and always used to text me to see how i was doing and used to wake me up with those cute "good morning beautiful" texts and all that cute stuff to show that he cares and was thinking about me.

these past few months he never texts me anymore and i talked to him about it and asked him what was up and he said he's just been busy with school work since his grades were bad. but is it THAT hard to send a simple text at any point of time in the day? and when i text him he usually doesn't even answer. so yeah we pretty much don't even talk during the week and i don't feel like i can go on like this having this gut feeling that im with someone who doesn't even care. i've talked to him about it but it just seems to go in one ear and out the other...when we're together he's so nice but i just don't know what to do..i love him with all my heart and he's my first love and i'd be absolutely lost without him, but i don't want to do this to myself...what should i do? =[

Hi :]

This guy sounds like he needs a wake up call :/
This is where an ultimatum comes in. This should be the LAST talk you should have with him about this problem. If he says yeah i know im trying, let him know that you haven't seen a difference. Tell him you understand his education comes first, but let him know that if he doesn't at least try and check up on you everyday, it's going to end because there's no affection whatsoever. Have you told him what he was doing the first six months that you loved is what he should STILL be doing? He needs to choose, whether he can be responsible and balance both his studies and you (WHICH HE CAN!) or if he has no sense of balance and just do his studies. School is generally what? from 7 or 8 to like 2 or 3? Lets assume by 7 he's home, by 9 hw is done... After that at least an hour or two of talking.. It's not hard. Or he can simply send a text saying he'll be doing work and whatnot... Guys tend to need an ultimatum sometimes lol... Don't worry, if he chooses his studies over you, and you guys choose to be friends, he shouldn't be getting another girlfriend, since he couldn't even balance you and his studies. If he does, then wow, he isn't worth your time. Good luck hun!1

-Uniq :]

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