I am a wife and a mother of three grown sons. I live in New York and am an equestrian. Most of my free time is spent riding and caring for my horses now that my sons are out of the house.
I give down to earth advice, as I tell it like I see it...and I've seen alot.
Gender: Female
Location: New York
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Ok so some of you may have read my question before about Jordan and Coston and i was wondering if anyone has ever felt this before but i have been with Jordan for so long that i dont know how to be without him does anyone know how to make this go away??? And how do i tell Jordan that i cant be with him anymore?? Thanks =] (link)
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You are just comfortable and familiar with Jordan and because of that, you could be willing to overlook the crap this guy dishes your way. It's not worth it because, in the end, you will probably end up leaving him anyway. You don't want that to happen when you are married with children. Then, your childrens lives will be destroyed.
The uncomfortable feelings you have are not going to just go away. That will take time, but they will go away. You need to venture out and do the right thing. The right thing is not staying in a relationship where there is no trust.
I would tell Jordan, "You have cheated on me twice and I just don't trust you anymore. Any relationship needs to be based on trust or it doesn't work for at least one of the partners in the relationship. I've decided I don't want to see you anymore." There is no easy way. Just do it.
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