Gender: Female
Location: Mexico/USA but I live in Switzerland
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
Member Since: April 4, 2009
Answers: 3
Last Update: April 4, 2009
Visitors: 1204
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Hello.
K so, I am 13/F and he is 14/M, and well... Here is the thing...
So, for a long time I have liked this boy, and he likes me too, but since we are quite young, and for other reasons, we have decided not to create a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. However, this doesn't stop us from time to time acting like a couple. So yesterday at lunch this girl, she's kind of pretty, came up to him and was like ALL OVER HIM. She started talking to him and she would like grab his hand real quick, or touch his cheek, or tug on his sleeve, or all kinds of stuff, when I was standing right next to him. We were talking and she just comes up and does all of this stuff, and it drove me INSANE. I was like crazy mad and even really jelous. I mean, its not like she knew about our... well, whatever we have... And he isnt my boyfriend, but he likes me and I like him, and I don't know what to do...
Does he have any commitment to me? We agreed that we would wait a bit to make a relationship, and I know he has no intention of dating her or anything like that and that it was all completely harmless flirting, but I also know that he is NOT my boyfriend... So why am I so jelous??? (link)
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You guys are denying your feelings, which I did in this situation too. Actually, I had dated the guy before, but we broke up, and during the time we weren't dating, I felt exactly the same way you did.
One night, I actually dreamt about biting a girl's earlobe off for trying to seduce him. In my dream of course.
So. I think that you two should give it a go. I mean, if you two like each other so much, and since you already act like a couple, you wouldn't act any different. And, if you really like each other, it should be easier to go back to friends if it doesn't work out. So just try it, and don't rush, just act the same.
The only different think will be that that girl, oh that girl, will finally get off his back. :D
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