My name is val, i just graduated high school. I have the best boyfriend named Zack, and im 18 years old. I'm going to junior college and will eventually major in speech pathology.
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I have a boyfriend that I have been with for two years. However, for the past 6 months or so our relationship has been really boring. We never go out, he never has any money, and all he wants to do is sleep on my couch and call it "spending time with me". He refuses to go back to college and try to get a better job so he can move out from his parents. I mean, he is 24! The flip side of this is that I have thought that I love him. he claims to want to get married and I'm gonna feel bad for hurting his feelings.
Then I met this other guy. He graduated business school from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. He has a good job, his own house and a freaking life. I broke down and went out with him on a date last night. I had a really good time. He opened doors for me, payed for my dinner, even walked me to my car. The flip side of this is he lives an hour away and I am used to seeing my boyfriend everyday.
So, what I am asking is for opinions. What should I do? Do you think it has the chance of working out with the other guy? I'm not a habitual cheater and I have never done this before. In fact, I feel guilty about it in a certain way, but in a certain way I don't. What do you think? Thanks. (link)
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I recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year because our relationship got soo monotonous. There is no rule in a "relationship" that after a certain point you two have to get married. If he doesn't want to spend time with you where you have fun, it's not worth it, especially if you met someone else. I think if something happens with this new guy, you'll be very happy you got out of the other relationship and the hour distance won't be a problem. It may take some time to get used to it, but I really don't think you should stay with this guy.
Hope I helped!
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Thank you. I think it sounds terrible, but the real reason is that I'm simply bored. Thanks for sharing your personal experience.
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