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HEYYY :D i'm in college and i'm a psychology major. i've had many experiences with boyfriends, crushes, friends and family. i know quite alot about sex and sex related issues, so feel free to ask me anything about that! i will be completely honest because i would want the same in return.

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What does it mean if you're horny a lot but you don't really enjoy sex? For me sex isn't bad, it's just boring, not that my partner is bad at it, I just get bored, but I'm always horny and I like it better when he fingers me then when we have intercourse. So what does it mean if you are always horny and arn't a big fan of sex?

I had this same problem.... but the trick is ALOT of foreplay and different POSITIONS! Lots of different positions. Foreplay gets you going and if you spend time doing that with your partner, it really makes sex so much more enjoyable, bevause it's like a "can't wait any longer" kind of thing and there's alot of teasing. I don't know if you've tried many positions, but try some out and see what works for you. Trust me, you will loooove sex when you find the right spot and position. Good luck :)

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(Rating: 5) thanks. We havent tried much bt baic positions, we're limited with time and have to have a blanket on each time because his brother frequently walks in.
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