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I'm Sandra. I am a singer and I love all creative things. I paint, and love to be outdoors. All of my life I have tremendously helped others with my ability to have empathy and sympathy for others. I can place myself in others shoes without judgment and solve their issues even if I myself havent been where they have, I understand. It is a great feeling to change strangers lives for the better!
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Age: 23
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Me and my girlfriend have been talking for about 6 months. But started being gf bf about 2 months ago. Everything was going great we would talk all day. But a couple of days ago i could tell something was wrong. At first she didnt tell me when i asked but when she did she said that it was about her ex boyfriend but didn't want to tell me what exactly happened. Because she said she didnt want to worry me and that i had nothing at all to worry about. She said dont worry ill get over it in a little bit. I went to bed right after that because i didnt want to think about it anymore. The next day i apologized for letting it bother me and i told her that i trust her. But since then we havent been talking like we use to. Sometimes we do but i still get this weird feeling that somethings not right. Im trying really hard to get back to the way i thought it use to be by surprising her and letting her know how much i love her.
My question is am i over thinking? I know she loves me. Another thing recently someone she knew passed away. (link)
I am a woman, and I am pretty sure that she cheated on you and feels guilty. I have done this before. Im not proud of it but I know how this works and what we say. We will act our ex has done something to us really bad so it looks like they harassed us, and then say oh dont worry about it because we dont want a confrontation. Only if we are guilty will we bring it up this way, because we feel we have to kinda tell someone to get it at least half way off our chest. I'm sorry it happened to you. Women are complicated sometimes, but at least get yourself an honest one.


Rating: 2
Sorry I had to rate you so low but that's pretty impossible since they never met. It was a online relationship. Things are going better last night I went over to her house it was kind of different but I don't think she would cheat on me. Today we talked a little I walked her to class and talked to her at practice. I think were getting back to where we use to be. Thanks for your adivce




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