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my names amanda im 17 years old & i like to help people out (:

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Okay, well for Valentines day my boyfriend bought me this really pretty necklace. It wasn't an expensive expensive type, however it was from a jewellers store, not an accessories store so it's worth a bit of money.

Anyway, he's not one to throw around his money. He comes from a very poor working-class family, and he doesn't make a lot of money himself, so for him this was probably a big thing.

I'm gonna guess the necklace was between 30-50 dollars, and that's what I'm really hoping with what I'm about to ask...

He slept over at my house last night. When we went to bed I took the necklace off and put it on my bedside table. In the morning, I went for my phone to check the time and I flipped everything off it. Including the necklace.

I just came home from work and realised that my necklace was part of the stuff that flipped. I found the chain, but the pink pendant/charm thingy (the thing that makes the necklace a necklace) is gone.

There's abosolutely no way to find it. My room is HELLA messy, plus I'm fair sure it dropped into a box full of absolute crap, and even if I took everything out I wouldn't be able to find it, it's so tiny and would fall out once I move around stuff.

So now I'm really nervous about telling him. As I said, that's a big deal to him, and I'm scared he'll react about the sentimental value as well.

I could always not tell him...but I always wore it, and he'd eventually ask why I don't wear it anymore...

obviously if you think it would break his heart if he found out even if it accidently got lost, then if you really cared about him, you would try to find it. "i think it fell in a box of absolute crap" so dont be lazy and LOOK for it. clean your room. or tell him you accidnetly knocked it off your desk and you want him to help look for it in your room with you

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(Rating: 5) Heya

Thanks for telling me to stop being lazy and look for it, I did end up finding it, it just dropped out of somewhere and I barely had to look =] thanks heaps!!
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