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HEYYY :D i'm in college and i'm a psychology major. i've had many experiences with boyfriends, crushes, friends and family. i know quite alot about sex and sex related issues, so feel free to ask me anything about that! i will be completely honest because i would want the same in return.

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i wanted to spend some of the day with my boyfriend at a spa and order him a back massage cause he always tells me how nice it would be and then bring him out for a birthday dinner but i was wondering if thatd be a little too much...i mean i can afford it and all if i save a little but he doesnt work so i don't want him to feel like he has to spend money on me you know? we've only been together for 8 months...do you think its a good idea? or do you have any other suggestions?

he's turning 17.

It might be a little much... I spent over $300 on my boyfriend and we were together for over a year and a little while later, he dumped me and I felt so stupid for spending that much on him. I'm not saying that's going to happen, but at this point in your relationship, all that is a little much. I would either just get him the massage and MAKE dinner for the two of you... OR give him a nice long back massage yourself with like oil or something and then go out to dinner. Hope everything goes well :)

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(Rating: 5) that actually sounds better
thanks =)
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