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Q: 17/f
I have known this boy for years and we have always liked eachother. finally after years of on and off seeing eachother there was always a connection. finally we are together. we are in love and talk to eachtoher all the time and text 24/7. the down side is we only get to see eachother twice a week. he is very insecure and emotionally weak. he trusts me but every once in a while he says he has his doubts and can't trust other people. it takes him forever to get over things which bugs me because i never worry about anything and i get over things quicker than they begin. is there anyway i can fix this?
thanks soo much :)
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Sounds like what I had going on three years ago! Except I was the insecure one ):
My then boyfriend and I had a long distance relationship and it was great! Until I started having my doubts because his exgirlfriend who was still really close to him. I would always disregard what he had to say and I didn't believe him (which I should've) and I had all these doubts. Sometimes, I'm not even really sure why!
I think the only way to fix this insecurity of his is to show him that you really care about him and that he's important to you. Not only through your words, but your actions. The little things that count! But ultimately, it's going to take time and his maturity to understand and trust you.
Best of luck!
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thanks soo muhc, you were a lot of help :))
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