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>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania

>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.

>> Taken since 11.25.07

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i went on vaca, fell for a guy, came home, and lost feelings for my bf of 6 months. weve been fighting, and i wanted to b/u with him cuz i still like the other guy. my bf clearly has much more feelings for me then i do for him. im too scared to break up with him. i tried and the words didnt come out. i ended up saying something else. i dont know how to gather up the courage to do it. we stopped fighting, and unless we start fighting agiain, i dont think i could just say what i want to say out of nowhere. will i know when the right moment is or will i keep putting it off until he breaks up w. me?

i just need some support here lol im very stressed and i have no clue what to do. thanks

Hi there =]

I know you said you wanna break up with him, but can I set a couple questions to ask yourself, maybe think things over.. So you met this new guy while on vacay and fell for him... do you think long distance relationships will work for ya'll two? In my opinion, all couples fight and say and make up... has your bf been there for you through everything? Accept you for who you are and loves you truly? Does he try to make you happy and stay faithful? I don't think it's quite right to throw your boyfriend away just because you have developed feelings for a new stranger, you know? Perhaps make a list of pros and cons about both guys... And check who comes out on top.. Im pretty sure your bf will... BUT, if you don't wanna be committed, simply explain you think it's better to be friends because you're not ready to be in a committed relationship.. don't lead him on... good luck hun!

Uniq =]

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(Rating: 5) thanks, i mean, i know my bf cares about me so much
and hell always care about me, but im young [younger then him] and i dont think i wanna be stuck in one relationship. thats what lifes about, experience, right? and idk arent you supposed to find things that make you excited in life? me and him arent really exciting anymore, the spark we had in the beginning died a bit, and i think im ready to break up. i really dont know how to hurt him like that. ah well thanks for the advice and sorry for the killer long feedback
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