Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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I am in a situation where I care about my boyfriend a lot and I love him a lot but I know that I am not in love with him. I have reason to believe that he is in love with me. The thing is that I really don't want to hurt him because I know that we will not last forever but I think he thinks that we might make it through high school and stay together for a long time. But at the same time I don't want to break up with him because I DO like him. I just don't know what I should do sometimes. (link)
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I was in this situation a few years ago except that I had been in love with him at some point but I fell out of love because the relationship got dull and I just wasn't feeling it anymore. Anyway I wanted to get out of the relationship because I felt like I was lying to him, having him think that I was in love with him when I wasn't. I knew I'd feel terrible if I broke up with him because I knew he really really loved me, and we had prom the next weekend that we had both spent a lot of money on so I figured I'd stick it out through prom and then re-think everything and maybe by then my feelings would be different and by the time prom came along everytime we kissed it lacked the chemistry we once had and he could feel it too. That next week the relationship just sort of deterierated and I broke up with him the next weekend and yes, he was devistated and I felt terrible and even considered taking him back but I knew if I had that it would make things worse. So we went our separate ways and in the end we both knew it was for the best. we're friends now and both in relationships that are much better for us.
You're going to make your own choice but this is my story and this is how it turned out. Stick it out for a little bit longer (few days, weeks, month, whatever) and just see if you're feelings change. Maybe you're just at a dull stage. You can't force yourself into a relationship that isn't right.
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Thank you thank you thank you. This is exactly how I feel. At first I really did love him too. But then something happened and it faded drastically. At one point I was so frustrated that I think I took it out on him because he started asking me what was wrong. But I told him I was fine and he just said that I should trust him and tell him what's wrong. So I apologized for being mean and now we're okay. But you're absolutely right, I think my feelings will become clear in time both to me and to him and if it doesn't work, then it just won't and that's okay. Thank you again, you've been a huge help. :)
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