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ok, so your going to think i'm maybe ugly, or dumb for not knowing any of this but. im 17 & a junior. I'm not ugly i just haven't had that much experience with guys. Many guys think i have but i haven't. I'm really starting to like this guy but we mostly talk through texts, we don't really talk in person only seomtimes. Hes really experienced and hes hooked up with one of my really close friends he fingered her. He told me that he wants to kiss me and what not but honestly i havent kissed anyone, and i haven't gotton fingered by anyone and its not that im not into i am but i havent had a relationship or fwb or anything. and no im not anti social or anything i do talk to guys but i dont know. im nervous on what to do i might be going over his house this weekend and were going to be home alone, what do you do when a guy french kisses you? people tell me its instinct but im not really sure, i don't want to screw up on anything. or on what to do if he tries fingering me im just lost & i dont know what to think of it because i worry about things to much.
help? if theres a possible way?
i understand if you can't explain anything because there probably isnt much to explain or its hard. but thanks. (link)
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One, you need to relax. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being inexperienced at your age. In fact, I salute you. most girls are so concerned with thier image that they become sexual at much younger ages. But, there's something you lose when you become sexual at a time in your life that you aren't ready for it. You lose the experience of gaining experience with someone who loves you and whom you love.
There is no rule book of kissing. One guy might think you are a fantastic kisser, while another will think the opposite. Usually, if there is a connection between two people the kissing is in sync and all goes well.
Before you make this step, ask yoruself if you are certain about this guy and his intentions towards you. Not to scare you, but there are a lot of guys, especially your age, who are only interested in sex.
But, if you feel that you are certain, the only thing you must keep in mind is if you do go through with it and things are not going smoothly, it's probably becuase you two are not connected. If things do go smoothly, you will not be wondering what to do, I promise. You'll only be enjoying yourself.
Good luck. And for your own sake, do not do anything you are not comfortable doing.
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