Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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18 female.
so i have some trust issues. never had a boyfriend. but i seriously love my best friend nick. we've had SO much chemistry between each other but the thing is he recently broke things off with his girlfriend of two and a half years. he treats me different than he treats other girls. we've only kissed once and it was just a quick little peck. we're really attracted to each other but i'm still skeptical of his "ex" girlfriend because he says their still good friends and still talk since they did go out for so long and they were each others first loves. i just don't know when he tries to get with me, is he doing it because he likes me or because he just wants to be friends with benefits? is there a way to tell? we're both busy people so it's not like i get to see him very much but when i do he always asks whats new with me, he wants to know ANYTHING thats going on with me, and gets upset and says "you never tell me anything anymore!" i just don't know. i'm not a good communicator either, so asking him if he just wants to use me or really likes me would be awkward. we've been good friends for about four years now, maybe even longer. (link)
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I feel like i wrote this question!!!!
(although it doesnt apply to me anymore)
My best friend(known him for 5yrs) had dated the girl on and off for 3 years and he complained everyday. he told me he had wanted to be with me since the day we met but thought i was too good for him. Anyway he finally broke up with her and we sort of dated but he didnt want to make it official because it he didn't want to hurt his ex's feelings. I spent every moment of every day with him, sleeping at his house on weekends. And I waited..and waited and waited for him to officially ask me out. A month went by and he suddenly ended it because "it's weird because we're friends" ....that didn't seem to bother him when he tried to have sex with me.
He told me he loved me and I still think i was just a rebound. Because after we "broke up" he was back with his ex by the end of the week...when he made me wait forever so he didn't hurt her feelings and i was left to think "what about me?!?!".
My Point:
you really need to talk to him because i was hurt the worst by a guy who was my best friend. i know you said you're not a good communicator but you're going to have to get over that unless you want to get hurt. I'm not saying that you're best friend is going to do the same to you. I have to say that the month that i was with mine was the best month of my life and also the worst break up. It's ruined our relationship and we both know it. We'll both say that the other person is our best friend but it is not the same.
In the end you'll do what you want but I just wanted to pass my story along to you.
Tell him that if all he wants is friends with benefits than to at least be upfront with you about it so you won't get your heart broken. Or at least not as badly broken.
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