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There's a guy I have loved for months.We've known each other for a very long time and we're going to get together soon.I have a problem-recently I started having this urge to have sex with him and it drives me nuts.It happens all the time.Whenever I think about him,talk to him,or basically anything that reminds me of him makes me feel that way.I don't want to scare him by being too straight-forward and I do not want to have sex yet,I'm only 15,and I think I'm too young for sex,but this urge is something I can't control at all,and I'm afraid I'll try to seduce him and end up doing it with him.What should I do to stop myself from losing my virginity to him?I love him,he loves me,so there are no emotional problems,I'm just afraid it might result into something bad. Plz advise,I really need help to make the right decision. (link)
Yes, 15 is probably the worst age for horniness and everyone starts losing their virginity then. However, I find if you just keep your pants on and try not to get too close to having sex that works. What I mean is one thing leads to another...There is nothing wrong with this desire, it is totally normal. If you really feel like it is distracting you birth control really helps with that. It also gets ride of cramps and raises iron levels (it's not just good for baby protection). Just keep reminding yourself about your stance on sex. And trust me you are not missing out on anything...Pretty much any other form of sex is better for women anyways (for example oral sex). Maybe masturbation would help lol...


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Thanks a lot!I was afraid that the feeling wasn't normal,but you cleared up a few things to me.You are right,one thing leads to another.I'll bear in mind what you said if I get that feeling around him...Thanks again!




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