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Last Update: August 29, 2009
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hi first off i'm a junior in highschool and the guy i like is a sophomore. this guy and i have a little past, we've made out once for like threee hours. after that we texted and talked a lot, but nothing serious because i'm not one to be in a relationship and i made that sort of clear to him. but now he has a freshman girlfriend and now i want him back because i'm realizing how much i reallly reallly like him. we still text and talk a lot. last night he was going to sneak out with me, but i decided that wouldn't be a good idea and instead we talked on the phone for two hours until two in the morning. do i have a chance? at alllll to get him back. (link)
Are you sure you like him or that the back of your brain is welled up with other emotions?

Take it from me, you might actually like him more than you think, but then again, your brain and emotions might be messing with you.

I think it's a little bit of jealousy that's riddling you right now. I mean, ask yourself right now, would you still feel the same if he weren't going out with a freshman?

It's not your fault, but if you know that you truly like him, and show him that (preferrably after a little while has gone by...), then you should have a good chance at getting him back.

Just make sure your into him, because it might hurt him to see that you went out with him over a silly emotion.

He might feel played, or used.

I'm not sure it that helps, but maybe he's going out with that girl to make someone jealous...?
*hint-hint*

The best of Luck,
-XZ

(In response to your recent comment, just let some time go by...I know that seems hard but I'd do it just in case he actually does like that freshman girl. On the other hand, if you feel that you can't wait any longer, just find the right time when he's alone and start talking to him...and slowly go into the topic. It all depends on how long he's been going out with that girl, and how you talk to him)

P.S.-Wear something nice if you decide to go talk to him!


Rating: 5
yeah but he tells people he "loves her" i don't know what to do.. should i ask if i'm wasting my time or what?




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