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People say revenge is never the answer, and you might be one of them, but I don't care. So don't scold me or try to reason with me just answer my question and get over it. I want revenge on him. There is this boy ((we'll call him Dave)) and he broke my heart. I know we are young and I am not going to try and say we are in love but I think its stupid that people say you can't get your heart broken even though they know they felt this exact pain at your age. Anyway, if Dave thinks he can just mess around with my emotions, tell me he likes but that he's "not interested in dating" but still expect me to treat him like a boyfriend, he's wrong. If he thinks he can lead me on when he gets bored but then ignore me whenever he feels like it, he's wrong. Its not like he flirts with other girl's (I'm really the only girl he ever talks to) and he's not a player AT ALL I think he just gets a laugh out of messing with me and it makes me so mad! I still like him SO MUCH (i know i know!! But i cant control who i like!!) but I just want to get back at him. It hurts me... A lot and I know its absolutely horrible, but I want to hurt him too. I don't care if he is "confused with his feelings about me" or any other bull crap he gives, he can't mess with me like that!! Jelousy could do something but I need MORE ideas. So please, skip the criticism and sense, and just help me. How can I get revenge?? (link)
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Im sorry to tell you but you clearly said he gets a laugh at the things you do..meaning that you cant actually hurt him because he doesnt care enough about you. Trying to be revengeful will only hurt YOU in the longrun because you keep stressing the situation. Dont get me wrong i know exactly how you feel, ive been in this possition many times before..but dont waste your time it makes you seem immature & on top of that it makes him feel good your still care about what he does. I advise you to cut off all contact with him and try to ignore the fact you know him. If its meant to be he'll realize he does want you as a girlfriend, if he doesnt then he never appreciated what you did for him. Pleasee dont go after the revenge thing it doesnt work..you only waste your time, dont comit the same mistake i made when i was about your age.
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Haha, that's NOT what I asked, but thanks anyway.
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