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Gender: Female
Location: indianapolis indiana
Age: 16
Member Since: November 21, 2008
Answers: 23
Last Update: July 25, 2010
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14/f
Its been really weird for me. Last year in 8th grade I was always upset because of different things going on. I did cut myself like 3 different times during that year. My friends were always there for me and everything. I have done way better a little after the beginning of 9th grade. I feel horrible now. I feel so upset and I'm always crying at night. But the thing is that I am only crying at night. I don't ever feel so upset during the daytime. Is something wrong with me? I feel like I'm so horrible at everything I do. Mostly because of school, I'm not doing good in two of the subjects and I'm just not getting it and I just break down. I mean besides that though, everything is so great but I don't feel any better. I have a good family, we fight but not as much as before, parents still together but almost got divorced a few months ago, the greatest friends in the world, and my boyfriend who treats me like I'm the best thing in the world. How come I'm not happy with this? At night I try to talk to my friends on the phone because then I start feeling better. They can't talk at night alot though because of how late it gets. I don't know why but I'm only happy during the daytime or with my friends. I feel so upset during one of my classes at school though, only because its not my best class. I don't think I'm really ugly except at times when I'm thinking, "why would my boyfriend like me, I'm not even that pretty" and then I start comparing to other girls. Last year I was worse I guess, I would be upset all day and with my friends but right now I don't know whats really going on. I'm only 14 and I don't get it. Sorry it was long and thanks for any help. (link)
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14/f
i was like that too.. so don't think your crazy because your not.
in the day.. there is stuff to keep you busy and you don't really think about all the stuff thats going on.. at night though its when you can reflect back on all the stuff thats happened and happening.. it all just unloads on you..
i know how it feels..
and as for the classes if you have older siblings parents and even teachers (even though teachers don't really help when they think it does) can help you out and explain it a little better... you can even call a cousin or aunt or something.. maybe tutoring?
and don't be so hard on yourself okay? it doesn't help much..
think about all the good things in your life.. i know its hard.. but deal with the bad stuff one at a time.. no matter how long it takes.. time heals everything. trust me. i know asking you to trust me is really hard.. well because you don't know me. but yeah. try =]
and even if you don't think your pretty.. well your boyfriend may be able to find a prettier girl.. but maybe he doesn't want to. maybe he just likes you for you.
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