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Okay so I'm a 16 year old female.
I don't really have a question, it's more of I need advice on my current situation.
Well, I have an afterschool job as a hostess and a waiter, James* and I have been flirting, I guess for the past couple of weeks. The only thing is that he's 21. I know "I'm 16 and he's too old", but it's this strange type of attraction that I've never really experienced before. And honestly age doesn't really matter to me, because I act quite a lot older than I am, haha. Both of my parents know about him, and I've told my two best friends, so I'm very open about this I guess. Just not to him..I have no idea if he has feelings towards me, it could just be me over analyzing it. But he has a petname for me, and I him, haha, it's kind of grossly cute. And he always smiles at me when I pass by him, and asks me how my day was and how school is going and just simple little gestures like that. I dunno. I may be crazy, but I'm pretty sure he's into me? His friend is dating a 16 year old, so I don't know if that means that he'd be down for it, or if he would feel like a total creeper haha. Again, I'm probably way over-analyzing this. I guess I'm just wondering if this is maybe, wrong? In a weird sort of way. Once again, I don't really have a question..more like I'm seeking advice on what to do about this. Should I ignore it, just keep on 'flirting', or what. I've never been in this type of situation before where the guy was 5 years older than me, which seems like a lot right now, but it really isn't later. I don't really know what I'm rambling about, haha. Help? I'm way confused. (link)
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Well, I know age is just a number, my parents have like a 14 year age difference.
Anyways if he is single, and you're interested totaly see if he's interested. The worest thing he could say is, "I see you more as a little sister." Which is still cool, but at least you'll not have missed the chance to find out if he likes you likes you. ^.^
Just got to take a deep breath and be straight forward/blunt with him. :x
You can do it! Don't be scared!
Good Luck.
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Thanks a lot. I really think I'm stressing this too much :P
All my friends tell me to ask him out, but I'm just really really shy haha. Thank youu :)
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