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Q: He really was perfect for me. But I had just got out of a relationship and I wasn't ready. So I messed everything up. Anyway, we broke about two months ago. And we had dated for a bout two months. (He dumped me, of course) But he said he stll wanted to hang out and be friends and stuff. and he said maybe we can try again later. but i said no (even though i didn't mean it) and at one point he told me he still loved me. but we never hung out or anything, and eventually we just stopped talking. Then a few weeks ago he said Hi (through a text) to me but i didn't answer because everytime he talked to me, i would always jump up and be there for him, so i wanted to make him try a little harder.. so he said it again two days later and i didn't answer. now it's been about three or four weeks and he hasnt said anything. I dont know what to do. Hes not the type of guy that wants the girl to be all upfront and say 'omg i want you back im tired of these games' stuff. That just pushes him away. Its not like he was my only boyfriend, ive had a few, but he's just different.. i really want him =/ i wish i wouldnt have taken him for granted =/
Hmmm. wow this ones a really hard question to answer. I know how you feel everyone makes mistakes since you've admitted that you've made one why can't you just tell him you've made a mistake and you want to get to know him a lot better and maybe have a good relationship. Since he told you he loved you i'm guessing that he still does if it was true you can't really get over love that easily . I suggest just talking to him and not make him try harder than he is guys don't like to try to hard unless they're actually going to get a response.So just talk to him I hope everything works out don't worry everyone makes mistakes .

Well, he barely even got to know the real me. I was a mess and wasn't over my ex. So he has every reason to not like me. I can't tell him that I've made a mistake and want to try again, because I know how his mind works, that will only push him away. ANyway, thanks.

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