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He really was perfect for me. But I had just got out of a relationship and I wasn't ready. So I messed everything up. Anyway, we broke about two months ago. And we had dated for a bout two months. (He dumped me, of course) But he said he stll wanted to hang out and be friends and stuff. and he said maybe we can try again later. but i said no (even though i didn't mean it) and at one point he told me he still loved me. but we never hung out or anything, and eventually we just stopped talking. Then a few weeks ago he said Hi (through a text) to me but i didn't answer because everytime he talked to me, i would always jump up and be there for him, so i wanted to make him try a little harder.. so he said it again two days later and i didn't answer. now it's been about three or four weeks and he hasnt said anything. I dont know what to do. Hes not the type of guy that wants the girl to be all upfront and say 'omg i want you back im tired of these games' stuff. That just pushes him away. Its not like he was my only boyfriend, ive had a few, but he's just different.. i really want him =/ i wish i wouldnt have taken him for granted =/ (link)
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so why didnt you answer the second text?! you should have answered that one because since you said no when he asked you out agian, he thought you were just not intersted in him anymore and hes not going to try and talk to you if he thinks you wont even answer. i know i wouldnt either. the good thing is he texted you twice meaning he really does want to talk to you and he wasnt just bored one day looking thru his contacts.
why dont you text him with a simple "hey" then if he doesnt answer wait a few days and try it agian bc now he might do the same thing you did. if you still get no answer the second time you text him then let it be. theres no harm in trying but you have to put in a little effort otherwise hes gonna think you arent into him anymore and that doesnt sound like what you want. please take my advice bc i know what your going thru! and dont let him slip thru your fingers. talk to him before its too late!! good luck! hope this helps!
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I dont really wana talk to him first :/ but if he talks to me again, i'll definitely answer, like you said. Im sure he'll talk to me at some point... oh and he didnt ask me out a second time, it was right after he broke up with me that he said 'maybe we can try again later or something'
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