I am a wife and a mother of three grown sons. I live in New York and am an equestrian. Most of my free time is spent riding and caring for my horses now that my sons are out of the house.
I give down to earth advice, as I tell it like I see it...and I've seen alot.
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Member Since: January 17, 2009
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Last Update: September 11, 2011
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hi M'AM, I AM REALLY REALLY DEPRESSED!! PLEASE HELP ME!
MY STORY: well in childhood i had a mild problem in urinating which was latter corrected, now at the age of 25 my penis though well developed still is small in length!!!!!! yes to add to it recently my doc said that I CANNOT FATHER A CHILD!!!!!! since i dont have enough sperms!!!! However he did say that the size though small was adequate for me to satisfy. I AM SHATTERED FRIENDS AND I M REALLY DEPRESSED!!! I M TRULY IN LOVE WITH A GIRL AND WE HAVE BEEN GOING AROUND FROM PAST 10 Years and i will definately tel her every thing!!!! but idont know WHY ME WHY??????? I HAVE STOPPED CONCENTRATING ON MY WORK, MY PERSONAL LIFE IS AFFECTED, you know how being able to father a child is treated as masculine in our world!! i dont know what to do. HOWEVER I AM SURE THAT I CAN KEEP MY GIRL HAPPY AND SATISFIED AND WE DID GET PHYSICAL SOME TIME AROUND AND WE HAVE GOOD CHEMISTRY BUT SOMEHOW I DONT KNOw HOW SHE WILL TAKE THIS NEWS (she is 21 years old)??!!!! OH GOD PLEASE HELP!! AND YOU FRIENDS PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO BECAUSE I AM REALLY DOWN.......PLEASE ADVICE, since trust i found you one of those matured people who can really help in this, SO PLEASE M'AM I M EAGERLY AWAITING FOR YOUR REPLY.......... (link)
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I understand how depressed you feel over this new found information. It can take a while to digest it all. You need to give yourself time to come to terms with it. You're relatively young and I'm sure this means everything to you, but, believe me, it is not everything.
You say you've been "going around" with a girl for the past 10 years. I'm not sure what that means. Are you seeing each other exclusively or just once in a while? If you are in a committed relationship and you truly love each other, none of this should matter to her. If, on the other hand, the relationship isn't that solid, then it could be a deal breaker, just like going off to college is sometimes a deal breaker in a relationship that seemed so good. Some women leave men who go off to war, if you can believe that! It's not the fact that he's going off to war that causes the breakup, it's the fact that the woman wasn't committed to the relationship that caused the breakup.
Obviously, this news has hit you like a ton of bricks, but I'm here to tell you that it is not the end of the world and if she loves you she will accept it and you will both get on with life. If she does not love you, it will be her excuse to move on. This will be true with any relationship you may form in the future. Love goes alot deeper than the physical aspects of a person and children can be adopted. A good man is hard to find! Therefore, if this is a deal breaker, then the relationship wasn't that strong to begin with.
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hey thanks m'am, i m some what relieved and what by the Grace of God we both are really committed. any how you take care m'am and God bless you and your family.
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