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>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania

>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.

>> Taken since 11.25.07

>> Have been on this site since I was in 7th grade. You do the math lol

>> Very open minded so don't be afraid to contact me for advice

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Well I've been through things in the past that really effected me and the way I act . Stuff that messed up stuff in my head , definatly NOT mental . Like with my boyfriend , I get mad at EVERYTHiNG , like seriously . I'm so over sensitive and it's like if he trys to correct me i'm very aggresive & defensive .He says it pushes him away but always wants to work through it .. he's not asking to change me , just how I respond .. i'm VERY jealous to due to a past relationshiop.. please help & GOOD advice please .

I know JUST how you feel.

Well, let's start off by saying you have a very good boyfriend if all he is asking is for this to change, and he's willing to stick by your side regardless. To change being overly sensitive and aggressive, try being in his shoes. Would you like it if everytime you tried helping your boyfriend, he'd snap at you? I say, give respect to get it back. It seems you have a very good man on your side, DON'T lose him to pitiful things like behavior problems ;) . As for jealousy, I have my own tactic but I'm not sure if it will work. What I do is think of myself. Think of the positive things about you. If you're attractive, have a good personality, lovable, then you should have no problem picking yourself up from a breakup if anything happens. Sometimes trusting blindly is hard, but boosting my ego helps. Especially if you believe it's true lol. If not, talk to him about what exactly gets you jealous, maybe he'll be nice enough to avoid the things. good luck :)

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