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Ok everyone has relationships or is romantically involved with someone at one point or another. I am 15 and i havnt had a boyfriend.. im pretty okay with that and dont necesarily want to rush it. Naturally i am i guess dirty minded or kinky talker how ever you want to put it. My best friend thinks its gross if i talk about guys id like to f*** and says its whorish but im like well im not actually doing it, cuz im a virgin. I wouldnt want to have sex with someone unless i was dating them and for a certain time period but i know there are certain guys that i would have with dating them or not. I wouldnt really care about getting to know them, I would just like to get to know them physically because what i see now is already good. When it comes to a boyfriend i dont care if there a virgin or not because now at this age it seems like half the people arent anyway so why exclude so many people. My friend thinks that sex thing is whorish too..and disagrees with the bf unless im ready to lose my virginity. I just want some other opinions on everything and please just be honest

It's perfectly normal and natural to have provocative thoughts during puberty. It's all part of growing up. If we didn't have these thoughts, we wouldn't want to have sex, and sex is what creates new life. If talking about it with your friend bothers her, then don't talk about it with her. And for the "whore" stuff, a whore is someone who sells sex for money. People use that word very carelessly and cruelly now days. You are definitely not a freak, every other person your age is going through the exact same thing.

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