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difference between holding a hand and
chaining a soul, And you learn that
love doesnt mean leaning and company
doesnt mean security, And you begin to
learn that kisses arent contracts and
presents arent promises, And you
begin to accept your defeats with your
head up and your eyes open, with the
grace of an adult, not the grief of a
child And you learn to build all your
roads on today because tomorrows ground
is too uncertain for plans. After a while
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if you get too much.
So plant your garden and decorate your
own soul, instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really are strong,
And you really do have worth.

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its been four months since I've been with my boyfriend .I lost my virginity to him Im 17 and his 20 years old.we started dating in september 20,2008 and had sex for the first time on november 11,2008.

we were at his house in his room around october of 2008 and we were making out and he tried to take my shirt off and i said no he was upset and kept asking me what am i waiting for this happened twice . the third time i told him i was ready for his own sake and he went to get a condom and we were ready to go and i told him that i wasnt ready so he was like its okay im not going to pressure you a month later which was november 11,2008 we were making out and i felt like i was ready for me this time and we did it.thinking back im wondering did he force me im still with him and i really care about him he treats me right and im happy .

Honey there was no pressure at all. Because if there was, it should have happened from the very beginning. But the thing was he waited, though he was impatient at some point. Sex is something that is mutual. Maybe what you truly feel right now is guilt or could be you have some misgivings toward losing your virginity. Don't dwell too much about it. It's all in the past. Snap out of it. He treats you right and makes you happy are the eminent points right now.

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(Rating: 5) thnk you
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