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My ex boyfriend is trying to get back with me. However he doesnt know I have another bf already nobody really knows about him except for my really close friends because I didnt want any gossip, drama, and my mom doesnt like him that much (she doesnt really like anybody that much). However, I found out that he asked one of my really good friends to be his girlfriend as well. I talked to him about it and he admitted it. He said that me and her are both beautiful and that he likes her a lot but he really loves me and that he didnt want to be alone and anyways he knew that she was going to say no. This sounds kind off like player to me but he denies it...I feel kind off like....okay so im your back up plan? no it doesnt work that way... he got mad when I told him what I thought...and i dated him for 5 months and know he´s a good guy. Lately a lot of my "friends" true faces came up...so I dont really know what to think... am I right to think that he´s just playing with me....and that...hes and idiot? in my eyes hes trying to get together with two girls since one was obviously going to say no then theres the back up one....Im nobody´s backup...and i have someone who loves me and truly cares about me....what should I say? am I right to think this way? Im 17 female...
This guy does sound like he's just trying to find someone. If he only wanted you and seriously loved you, then he'd be only after you. Obviously he just wants someone to have someone regardless of who it is. You say you're in a good relationship with a guy who you know loves you now, so why are you fooling with this guy??
It doesn't matter what you tell him either. You don't even have to respond to him. You shouln't worry about what he wants. He may be a good guy, but maybe he's only interested now because you're taken and he can't have you. Isn't that how it always is, it drives them crazy when you're over it and you're happy with someone else??
Nobody asks someone out if they know they're going to say "no" just for the heck of it. I'd just leave this guy alone or it may jeopardize the relationship you're in now.
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Thakyou you´re right....i think he just wanting to find someone...Ill just ignore it...Im already in a really good relationship so yeah..thankyou...
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