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Well I was talking to this girl for a school semester on and off. She's 14 and I'm 16. Everything was going great and we were closer then ever. But one day after being back together for about a week. She told me for I dunno the 5th time that she's scared to hurt me. So I told her how I felt about her " I know what I want and I I've found it in you" " that's how I know I won't hurt you". Then she said that she's trying really hard to find that something in me. After that i told her I haven't been completly myself around her I meant that I'm kinda more outgoing when I'm with my friends. And that I really like her and that I want to be with her and I asked her if she wanted to be with me. She told
Me that she doesn't want the same relationship that i want. So we ended it and i stopped talking to her. The next day at school she told me that she was sorry and what she really meant was that she doesn't want to lose me if she messes up. We talked later that night about figuring out what she wants she told me all the things she wants her bf to have out of about 10 things I had all but maybe 2. So what my question is is what do you think? Am I not good enough to meat her standards or does she really not want to lose me? She said she wants to be best friends but right now were more like aquantences (my choice). 1 more question tthis one is for girls what do you look for in a guy?
Okay, so it sounds like this girl doesn't really know what she wants right now. I hate to say it, but the girl is 14, so she's still really too young to get serious. I think she is still having issues as to what defines her interests and what she really wants in a guy. I'd say you leave her alone, and find someone else who can make you feel good about yourself. It's only hurting you in the long run if you keep holding on to her in the midst of her problems. Find someone who is ready for something more, and more mature. Because it seems to me that if you only relate to like two of her 10 things that more than likely you two aren't gonna be happy campers.
And as for what us girls look for in guys:
someone who is mature, will love us even for our flaws, tells us we're beautiful and believes it, trustworthy, not pressurous, protective, but not overly jealous, b/c that's just annoying. funny and can get along with our friends and family
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Thank you for your help I dunno if I ttyped it wrong but I meant I don't have 2 of the things she's looking for I think i'm gunna take your advice it's hard to let go of her but I'm tired of being the only one trying to make this relationship work
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