16/f
all of my friends, or pretty much all of them, have hooked up with a guy/guys. I haven't. and they are all so pretty :[ AND DON'T TELL ME THAT I AM PRETTY BECAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME. i think im not appealing to guys. i don't have boobs. and actually, some of my friends don't either, but that's not the point ... i guess. I've had like ... 3 boyfriends. 2 were just flukes. one i really liked alot, but we only kissed, never hooked up. i guess i was scared? *because he has hooked up before* and then we broke up. but anyways, just the other day one of my "friends" was like ... well everyone has hooked up by now...duh. and i was like, no they havent, i know people who havent. and she was like, have you? and i lied. i said i did. because i didn't want to feel like a loser. because maybe i should have ALREADY hooked up with a guy. but again, no guys like me. and im only attracted to the ones who are out of my league, not available, or ex's. I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG OR WHAT I AM DOING WRONG OR ANYTHING. any advice is appreciated. i guess. ugh. will it ever be my turn ?! ugh. and you don't have to tell me what i want to hear, im on this site for the truth. okay? thanks in advance.
I know what it feels like to be the odd man out. Your friends are talking about their sex stories and what happened to them. I have always had pretty high standards and I didn't get a serious relationship until I was even 17.
Despite what your friends are doing, I don't think you should feel the need to jump right into some fling just so you can honestly say you've hooked up with someone.
This stuff takes time, and it needs to be that when you DO hook up with someone it's not some big joke. It's not as glamorous as it seems, and you aren't missing too much.
You aren't a loser, the right guy just hasn't come around yet. We all have flaws, and I think you're currently struggling with your confidence and blaming your physical features more or less on your not hooking up.
Believe me when I say that you should seriously do stuff with someone you care about, not just some random guy. Give it time and when you find that guy he'll love you regardless of your cup size.
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you're awesome haha thankss.
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