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My name is Alisha....I'm an outgoing,friendly,fun person and I love making new friends. Feel free to ask me any questions...I will do my best to help you out :]

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btw i'm 14. 15 in april


ok so i went ot with this guy about 5 months ago and it took me a while to get over him.You see he dumped me for his ex girlfriend in another town about 3 hours away.He broke up with me over the phone and it tore me apart.it took meso long just to trust him again.Well about 2 or 3 weeks ago he told me that he sorta liked me again which was kinda weird to me because i had started having feelings for him again around the same time. We flirted for a while and he eventuall broke up with his girlfriend. He said it was too hard having a long distance realtionship.So we weren't sure what really to do so we decided to meet up. We went to the beach and sat on some sand dunes. after about 2 hours of talking. we hooked up and it was my first hook up ever and i wasn't really sure what to do but whatever i did it felt good. Anyways. after a few weeks we sorta stopped talking he got really sunburnt that day and wasn't at school. i got an infection and also wasn't at school. I think i was confused about my feelings for him. So the other day i was bored so i decided to message him. We started talking. two of my best friends were over and i decide to flirt with him and see where it went my friend was telling me some things to say and it was fun. well we kept on flirting for a few days and i really started to like him again. i had this new found confidence like i could tell him anything.
And then today. New years day he tells me he has a girlfriend. That she asked him out two days ago and that they had started going out yesterday. I was upset of course. I just started to think we could get back together. and he does this to me. i told him that i liked him but was confused about what to do. and he said he was too.
I'm not sure if i can forgive him this time . for leading me on. its like i'm the back up plan for when he gets back from his holiday he gets back with me. its crap.
what do you think i should do?
i'm so confused. my friends think i forgive him too easily. but i dunno
please help me
xoxo
sorry for it being sooo long
i'll appreciate any help.

I've been in your situation more than once unfortunately....guys like to play games...and that is what this guy is doing to you...he wan't you to hold on..he doesn't want you to move on. Although you still care about him...guys like that aren't worth your time. Time heals everything so if you feel like it's gonna be impossible to move on...i promise that you are wrong. I thought that same thing way to many times. If you really really want to be with him still...make him prove to you that he is worth it. Make him earn your trust back. I hope my advice helps :] Good luck! & if you need more advice or have any more question...feel free to ask me

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