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Q: I have a serious cutting problem. I just got out of rehab for depression and suicide attempts. I was there for 3 months. My cutting habit started in rehab. During day treatment, I began scratching myself with plastic tweezers during Art. I cut when I feel anxious, I cut when I think about my ex. The only girl I ever dated, 5 month relationship. She abused me and was obsessed (clinically, extreme OCD). She hurt me and took control of my life, but some how i still love her and think about her and want to be with her. We aren't allowed to talk, but we have seen each other a few times and I just break down. She still loves me. And more than anything I would love to be back with her. I know that I don't need to, but after all the stuff she does to me, I still am in love. I cut as a punishment for thinking about, talking about, or anything else about her. Which is hard.
This is mainly a two part question.
How do I stop my cutting habit? (I do hide things and I am on anti-depressants)
And,
How do I get "out of love"?
Thank You So Much.
17/F
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many people do that to punish themselfs i used to do that, i know its easier said than done to stop bc its addicting after a while so the sooner you stop the easier it will be. the only thing you really can do is move on, theirs much better people in the world an she hurt you. i have extreme ocd and its very hard but eventually people learn to manage it. please dont even think to kill yourself that is the worst possible thing on earth :( it causes so many people pain i found that out the hard way. every time you cut and giv yourself a second of it it hurts everyone that loves you for a few days its extremely hard for people to see you in pain. your ex controlled you and tried to take you over, just live your life and try to be happy, go out with your friends be free from the control and maybe find some other girls out there. theirs no going back so just live your life to the fullest. if you try and stop thinking about her and how much she hurt you then youl start to recover then try and cut less day by day, after like a week yould be surprised. everyone hides stuff its ok. it just takes time to get over someone and stop cutting but if you try your hardest every day to stop it youl do great :) im having a bit of trouble right now myself so i dont know if this answer will make much sense but if you want i can redo it just ask. i know you are a very strong person just dealing with some hard times but everyone has trouble and people just need help sometimes
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thank you so much (: your answer was like talking to a best friend. you're really passionate about making sure that the person you give advice to is lifted up and happy. i smiled really big after your reply. (:
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fourteen and loving it sometimes -into the partying and concerts –I love my guitar n figuring out mental issues stuff, and my boyfriend with all my heart five months as of xmas c: -iv ben through quite a bit and it doesnt seem to ever stop for me, I am schizophrenic and bipolar -but I am out with friends or my boyfriend every single day because I don’t like to be alone I am the social kind wich helps me soo much -my bf is my bff, he keeps me going in life even through my meltdowns and eposodes he knows i love him with my whole heart he is the sweetest and knows everything about me -i have two old accounts on here randomgrl777 and intheriverbeloww but i lost the password to both :( but il answer anything honestly so just ask
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Gender: Female Location: usa baby! Occupation: working towards either a pshyciatrist photographer surgen csi doctor lawer :D Age: 14 Member Since: December 22, 2008 Answers: 3 Last Update: January 7, 2009 Visitors: 1432
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