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ok, first of all, I'm a girl too but you don't have to be gay to give me advice! anyone who knows anything about girls and flirting and all that please help me! So I'm a junior and there is a girl who I hang out with a lot lately who's a sophomore. She's a lesbian but has been single for a while. I'm not openly gay but I've always liked girls and been with a few, but NO one knows I'm gay. The other night we hung out at school alone for the first time and we just talked forever and now she knows I'm gay, and I really like this girl but I don't know if she likes me back? How can I tell?
She says that she had no idea I was gay, but before I came out to her she asked me all of these questions about whether I had a boyfriend and stuff. She kept giving me goofy looks after that and smiling whenever she saw me and she's also very touchy feely. Since we had that one long conversation she has linked arms with me all the time and wrapped her arms around my neck and then we were watching a school concert in the dark and there was no room on the bleachers and she asked if she could sit on my lap and I said sure and the whole time she would lean back on me or would spell out words on my arm while i spelled words on her back.
ok. am I reading way too much into this or might this girl like me? she is also beautiful by the way, I'm not ugly or anything, but I'm not gorgeous like her.
What should I do? now we're on winter break and I'm not going to see her for a while. should I try to talk to her over break or just wait for school?
help!

Ok so Im 20/ female and Im gay too and I came out a little over 2 yrs ago. I definately think that she is flirting with you. FLIRT BACK!!! Do the things that she does back to her. When you see her smile. But not like a smile that you would smile at a friend. A flirty smile. Be touchy feely with her. Your a girl too so think about what you like when someone if flirting with you. It sounds like shes really putting herself out there with asking to sit on your lap and writing words on your arms and everything. Put yourself out there too. And the writing words on each other thing would be a good way to put it out there that you like here. Next time you guys are doing it, tell her to figure out what your writing and keep writing it till she does. It would be really sweet if what you spelled out was your beautiful. Thats a way to flatter her and tell her you like her without just saying I like you. Just carry yourself with confidence and you will be fine. Good Luck with everything!!

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(Rating: 5) thank you, I will take your advice!
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