|
|
|
|
|
Q: Well...I'm having one of those moments where you don't know whether it's better to follow your heart or what makes sense.
Like you might've guessed already. It's about a guy. Now, he's no normal guy that I've liked; the most special guy I'd say; soul mate, if you will. Even he thought that I was his for some time.
Yeah, we did go out for 3 months, but then after some nasty arguments we broke up with him saying that it's better to just be friends. I still like him, a lot. I mean...I've been through a lot for him and I don't want to give up. It was all out of my own free will too. He's...not exactly the nicest guy from the start. Don't get the wrong idea though, he could also be extremely caring and I'm not being bias.
Now he's liking another girl, probably not as much as he did to me, but he says he doubts he'll like me again, or that we'll be back together.
Could it be possible that he wants to hurt me so much that I wouldn't bear to be with him anymore and we'll both finally be free? Or does he just think that I'm obsessed and annoying?
During this whole thing I've been insisting on my wish to be with him forever, but with him doubting things like that...I'm just not sure anymore. Will it be a fairy tale ending? Or am I just another crazy girl in love?
So what do you guys think? Give up on him completely and go find some other guys? Give in to all his wishes and just wait? Or give it all I've got and think up some plan to win him back?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I don't think that this guy is worth your time. If he says that he does not think he'll like you again, that is a clear sign that it is time for you to move on. It's hard when you still love him, but think about the consequences of getting back together with him. You may forgive him, but could you really ever trust him? If he says that you're his soul mate, then dumps you, how honest is he? He sounds selfish and immature, and you know you deserve someone so much better!
~TD
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Thank you! This was what I needed to do. I didn't, and it caused a disaster, but if I had listened to you sooner it might have been different. Thank you! Sorry it took so long to answer you!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
bio
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I'm back after a hiatus! I have graduated college (yay!) and am working with Thoroughbred racehorses in Kentucky.
I enjoy giving advice to teens because now that I am older, I have a proper perspective of high school, but I am close enough in age that I don't think I'll come off as some idiot with adult problems that has no idea how teenage life works. Generally I answer love life questions, since that is where many self-image problems surface-not to mention it's highly confusing! If you are wondering about my own love life... well, I have been with my current boyfriend for 5 years. We are getting married once he finishes law school, and yes! We are high school sweethearts!
I also love giving advice to dog owners. I have grown up with dogs and currently have two mutt-butts of my own :) I have worked for several different veterinary clinics, including a vet school, I have taken tons of classes, as well as doing personal research.
I try to be understanding of everyone's problems...I also try to see things from the asker's point of view, but often I do not have enough information so I do the best I can!
BTW if you want to ask me a question, please keep in mind: I LIKE--decent spelling and grammer, proper punctuation, and real words; I HATE--using "like" improperly, lack of punctuation, and gross misspellings. I am happy to read and answer any question, but these are just polite things to do for any columnist!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Info
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Gender: Female Occupation: Shadwell Farm Intern Age: 21 Member Since: December 15, 2008 Answers: 73 Last Update: March 30, 2010 Visitors: 4528
Main Categories:
Favorite Columnists
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|