Well me name's Michelle
I'm 13, well I'm kinda 14 my bday is in March XD
I live in Melbourne, Ausralia
I absoulutely love my friends to death
And I love giving them advice. They always say that they can come to me for help (especially friendship problems) cos they can trust me to give them good advice and keep their secrets safe.
I always seem to have an answer to questions, so you can count on me to help you out.
I also love answering music questions.
If you need some songs for a mix CD or you just wanna know not ask what's hot and what's me and I'll find some ones matching your theme or taste EASILY!
Love ya!
Michelle xx
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I'm 18/f, and I'm currently being pursued by my friend, let's call him Mike. I used to be head over heels for Mike, and about a year ago we hooked up once or twice. But then we drifted apart. Now he and I are hanging out a lot, and he keeps telling me how amazing and beautiful and smart he thinks i am.. and it's flattering and I really like, him.. except he's 25 years old, and that difference makes me feel uncomfortable.
When we hung out last he tried to kiss me, and I told him that I wasn't ready because I had just gotten out of a really bad relationship (that's true). I've kind of sworn off relationships, especially physical relationships. I'm not interested in sex anymore. He said he understood and he felt pretty bad, but I told him we could still be friends, and he said he was okay with that.
He still calls me every night and praises me constantly, telling me how much he likes me, asking when I'm free to hang out.. and I DO want to hang out with him, because he's a great friend, but I don't want to lead him on and make him think I want to date or get involved with him again.
What's the best way to handle this situation? I've already spoken about it to him honestly, and I don't want to start blowing him off or avoiding him.. help! Thank you!!
-YoungAndCelibate (link)
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Be honest with yourself. Is age the only reason you don't want to be with him? If it is just remember this. When you're 30, he'll onlt b 37. When you're 60, he'll only be 67. When you're 90, he'll be 97. It may seem like alot now, but some couples' ages are like 20 years apart. So if you really love him and you have a great time with him, go for it. Don't worry what others might think, cos if you guys are truelly happy together then your true friends will accpet that. If you don't act now, then you might regret it later and wonder what might have been.
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Thanks! You certainly gave me a lot to consider.
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