My name's Kat, I'm a punk rocker from Chicago, and I love music, love, rocking out, buddhism, henry rollins, and my friends. Nuff said?
Gender: Female
Location: Chicago Area
Age: 18
AIM: RudeK45
Member Since: June 13, 2006
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Over the summer, this guy and i were friends with benefits. i know friends with benefits are never a good thing but anyway.. a friend of mine told me he had been dating someone. So i stopped talking to him to get him out of the picture. Well, i haven't talked to him in about 2 months and he texted me tonight saying that he missed me and how he wanted me to come over soon. I don't miss him, just doing things with him. I asked him about his girlfriend and he just said "yeaaah we can keep it between us" so i said umm ill think about it. so should i do it? i don't know the girl at all that hes dating so i wouldnt feel bad at all about that. (link)
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This SAME THING happened to me, and it broke my heart completely and ruined a solid year of my life. You must know that he is planning to use you. And he won't leave his gf for you. They NEVER do. And look at how he's cheating w/his girlfriend.. he might have TONS of other girls he sleeps with and does stuff with that you don't know about. Since he has no problem screwing over his gf, he'll have NO problem lying to you or hurting you. I'd hate to see anyone go through the same thing I went through. Please, I'm begging you, stay away from him.
This guy sounds so much like the guy I used to be involved with, I wouldn't be surprised if it was the same douchebag.
Please be safe and careful.
-K
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Thanks girl. Finally an answer that didn't make me feel stupid for considering it. I am sorry that asshole did that to you. I guess we learn our lessons the hard way hu? Thanks again.
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