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Member Since: November 14, 2008
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Last Update: March 24, 2009
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15f.

i know you guys are probably sick of all the damn questions about friends and friendship issues, but i have a simple question: do i have a right to be upset considering the following:

i used to be really good friends with this girl, but then she got a boyfriend and EVERYTHING changed.

the first time she hurt me was when she told me she went to third base with her boyfriend FOURTH months after. and i know you're like, "um well that's her personal business with her boyfriend. no reason to be jealous, girl." BUT she told two other friends who aren't as close with her as i am BEFORE ME. she has never done that to me before. she used to tell me everything. i thought i would have been the first to know...

the second time she hurt me was today. when her boyfriend told me that one of our really good friends got practically raped. SIX MONTHS AGO. she does not know that i know, but those same two girls even knew before i did. this really got me upset.

do i or do i not have a right to be upset with her? (link)
i think that u do have the right to be very upset with her and the reason why i think that is because expecally if she is telling people this that she does not even know as good as you know her them something is wrong there i think that you are going to have to confront her about this situation face to face because if you do it anyother way then she is not going to understand were you are coming from and then she is not going to want to be your friend anymore so you are going to have to handle this situation very delecetley because if you do not then you are going to be loosing her as a friend forever im not saying this to hurt you well okay tell me how it goes and good luck to you


Rating: 5
i don't even care about her anymore, so i won't bother talking to her face-to-face. what would i say to her? thanks for your input.




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