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im jenna :) im sixteen, and for some reason im really good with relationship problems. if i honestly can't help you, i'll tell you; i won't just lie to get a good rating. im good with more than just relationships, so ask me anything!

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alright guys, i could use your help.
i cannot flirt at alll.
i don't know how to start it or what to say?
how can i flirt with a guy?
i'm told by a lot of people i have a good personality
and i'll admit that i'm not even really bad looking.
i just have problems talking to guys sometimes and flirting.

any ideas of what i can do or say to flirt?
thanks a bunch :)

if you have a problem with talking to them, let them do the talking.

i dont know if you need help with flirting in school, or outside of school, or both. but ill try to help anyways.

in school, you dont really have to say anything at first. try it out with a guy in your class. if he looks at you while the teacher is talking, do a little half smile at him, then look away. before class starts, go up to him with some homework assignment, and make up some phony question to ask him about it. if he helps you, say something like "ah wow, you are my savior, i owe you one".
if youre doing bad on a certain subject in class, ask some guy that is really good at it. just say (while smiling) "hey, i noticed youre doing really good in this class, i was wondering if you could help me with a few things." if he says sure and smiles, then say something like "alright, wanna trade numbers so when i get stuck, i can call/text you?" just that sorta thing. and then after you text him for help, you can casually text him or call him and say he whatsup?

just make some jokes about stuff around him. if youre good friends with a guy that you like or just someone in class that you talk to sometimes. if someone says man its hot in here, just say eh no its just because "his name" is in here. then smile and laugh a little.

theres no right way to flirt, it usually comes natural. just talking to a guy, smiling a little, doing a little hair flip, can be considered flirting. the one thing that guys loveeee is when they say something funny, and you smile and just laugh a little bit, then look down for a few seconds, then when you look back at him, look at him straight in the eyes and have a little closed smile on your face, and you can add in "youre too funny" or something like that.

flirting isnt really about what you say, its more about what you do. if your walking and talking with a guy, just talk to him about how your day was, and just lightly let your hand brush his.

guys love girls that are down to earth, and dont care only about themselves. talk to him about random stuff, just talking to him is flirting. if you really really like a guy, then flirting will come very naturally.

hope that helps a little, if you need more help with it, then feel free to ask me another question :)

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