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Member Since: September 7, 2008
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Last Update: July 13, 2009
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Hi, I'm 17 and female.

I have this amazing, wonderful, boyfriend boyfriend that I love very much. I think I'm ready to have sex with said boyfriend, but I'm a little nervous because it would be my first time (it'd be his too.) I'd be totally comfortable talking to him about this, but I don't know how to bring it up.

So, does being nervous mean I'm not ready for sex, and how do I initiate a conversation about this with my boy? (link)
Um, not to be rude or anything but aren't you a little young to be having sex? Sorry, but this sounds like a really stupid idea, and maybe the reason you are nervous is because you are only 17 years old... I think you need to take a second and see that you are way too young. If your boyfriend really loves you, he will wait until both of you are actually I don't.... mature. So if you want my advice I think 17 is too young for sex. Not to mention it's a sin... but whatever I'm not your mom. Good luck with whatever you choose.


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:/ I guess I didn't give enough information about the relationship.
I see your point about age; however, you may want to cut the condescending tone in the future.
Also, it's a sin? According to who? Don't assume religious beliefs, or force them on people. Thanks :)




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