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i just turned 17 years old ill be off to college in about 6 to 7 months .im a nice person im a good communicater.i want to answer peoples advices mainly because ive been through some things in my life too and wished during those times that someone could have giving me some advices.i well take your advice serious, only if your serious too .
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Location: northbabylon new york
Age: 17
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my ex and i had dated for over a year a few years ago and then we dated other people on and off until july. we started dating and we were both really happy but i starting noticing that he was becoming more distant and so i talked to him about it many times. so we're both in highschool, same grade..all that jazz.
so it was almost four months and we started getting really tense, so i feared the worse.
then a week before four months he says he cant decide if he's happier with or without me..
so i wait all day, i went into school late, skipped lunch because i was scared to cry infront of him and i had been crying all morning.
so i went the rest of the day without crying and finally at one i broke down in his arms and i felt bad. so we talked a little bit in person but we started texting and he still couldnt decide so at like eleven that night i broke up with him hoping he'd be happier without me.. not so much
its been almost two weeks, and its not getting any easier. he said that if i was the same i was in the summer then he would date me again (happy, go lucky, enjoyable me) but i dont know how to be like that anymore.. any advice helps. thanks soo muchh!
happy thanksgiving. (link)
his a very confused young man that doesnt know what he wants and its not you so dont beat yourself about it.some people come in our lifes just to teach us a lesson maybe its time for him to go .i hope your not planning on stayin around playing that on and off game .its hard getting over people but the sooner the better protect yourself dont let him play those little games with you and change yourself for noone.good luck


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this made me laugh.
hahaha thankss!
i don't feel as alone now as i did.
:)




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